Couples quarrel. It’s bound to happen at some point in the relationship. When two people come together from different upbringings and possibly different backgrounds, as well, differences are going to be there. Unfortunately, sometimes those differences turn into disagreements which, in turn, can easily transform into arguments if we aren’t careful.
We all know there is a right way and a wrong way to argue but do we really thinking about that in the heat of the moment? Most of us probably aren’t once we get to that point.
Well, here at Couples Quarrel those are the kinds of things I want to help you with and discuss.
We know how it feels to hurt the one you love and want nothing more than to take away or ease the pain we know we caused. We also know how it feels to be hurt and betrayed by the one you love the most. The last thing we want to do is to try to listen and forgive them when all we can really think about is wrapping our hands around their neck and strangling the crap out of them for what they’ve done. We know this, but, in reality, that mentality is unhealthy and unproductive in working toward and maintaining a strong, happy relationship.
That’s why I want to help you avoid all the pitfalls that can almost destroyed your relationship, or (if you’re already in the middle of one) help you get out of them before it’s too late. Let me try to take some of the strain out of your relationship so you can focus more on each other and less on the things tearing you apart.